I'm Gonna Grow Up to Marry Daddy - Oh, the unfortunate lessons little boys learn when their neighbors are nice suburban gay couples. (In the Bible-thumping town of Wheaton, Illinois -- home of the Beamer Center -- no less!) But as Jamie and I witnessed recently in San Diego's Hillcrest, more and more straights are invading the gaytto now too, living and socializing together with us in the big cities. What is the world coming to?