NFL Wife - The Advocate does a nice job exploring the other side of Esera Tuaolo's closeted life in the NFL -- that experienced by his husband Mitchell. It's part of their cover package on the ex-lineman's story, which also includes the de riguer "coming out" interview and links to online companion pieces on gays in college sports and teammates fears about showering together. OutSports' Bill Koenigsberg has his own take on the latter issue.